So let’s start with the weekend. As always it went way to fast! I can’t even comprehend how time flies by so fast on the weekend! This weekend was rainy, so it greatly diminished our outdoor activities. We talked about gearing up and going hiking in the rain....but it was a cold rain! Yeah, we wimped out! We did do a few things to stay moving and active. We also got some things done around the house that have been hanging over our heads. So it was productive!!!
As the weekend progressed I started to think about my post for Monday and even more importantly where I am in my weight loss journey. My weight is still up, it has not dropped much since my dramatic overnight jump of 7 pounds when I started the medication for my shoulder. Admittedly I allowed the despair of that increase to drive me to a few extra calories one one or two occasions last week. But by the numbers I should still be seeing a decrease. So as I pondered my next move I knew that things needed to get serious...real serious. I was formulating the ‘new start’ post in my head. And that is when the shame washed over me. Yes, shame. How many times have I vowed that ‘this is it?’ How many fresh starts have I attested to. How many times have I failed only to a week or two later make a ‘this time it’s for real’ attestation on this website!! (If I’m lucky it’s only a week or two later....when it’s longer the damage done is usually greater!). It’s downright embarrassing! Utterly and demoralizing so!
I was still reeling from my embarrassment revelation when we decided to walk through the mall and a few stores. (Hey, it was raining, what else were we to do to get a bit of movement into our day!). Those places have a TON of mirrors. My eye caught my reflection and I just wanted to sink into the floor with embarrassment. How in the world did I let myself return to this point? How? When I was losing weight the first time around, I very clearly remember saying that I would NEVER be over 200 pounds again. Yet here I am! Significantly over that 200 pound mark I might add! I do find comfort in the fact that I have not gained it all back...but what I have regained is way more than any one should ever have to lose...again...or even ever! Utter humiliation coursed through me at the sight of my overweight body in the mirror. How could I have let this happen?
I know that I can do two things. I can wallow in my self pity and embarrassment and make no changes. Or I can pull myself up by the bootstraps, take these embarrassing revelations and honestly make the changes within my life to turn the shame into pride. Yes, it is a restart....yes it is one of probably a hundred or more restarts that I have vowed. But wallowing in my self pity is only going to bring about more embarrassment as I struggle to do things that a normal sized person can do. (For example: riding roller coasters at an amusement park, shopping at any store for clothes and not having to go to the fat women’s stores or departments, not being out of breath when I go up a few flights of stairs, etc).
I’m not giving up. I hope and pray that this is the last restart in my life. But if it is not the last one...I will keep pushing forward and restarting! Meanwhike, It is my fervent wish and plan to make the changes so that I never again have to look in a mirror at myself and feel nothing but shame and disgust. I will continue to push forward. Victory can be had for me. I can do this!
